Generally, I think humans could improve their lives by taking more naps, sharing more snacks, and listening to their dogs. It turns out I’m not the only one who thinks that! In The Dogs’ Guide to Human(Kind), Leigh Anne Jasheway and her seven dachshunds offer some great advice—and even I have to admit there’s more to a good life than snacks.
Although snacks certainly help.
These lessons in kindness and love come from seven little dogs with a lot to teach. At the time of writing, three were still beside Leigh Anne, and four had crossed the Rainbow Bridge. Their wisdom brings laughter, thoughtful pauses, and, in Mom’s case, a few tears.
As she read, Mom kept recognizing members of our family in the pages.
Our Family Between the Pages
For my big brother Magnum, “Always choose the sunny spot” and “Don’t let age slow you down” felt especially fitting. There’s something beautiful about enjoying the warmth wherever you find it and continuing to make room for the things you love.
For my sister Beretta, Mom picked “Save someone” and “Ask for help.” Beretta is a rescue dog, so that first lesson has a special place in her story. And asking for help? That’s good advice for dogs and humans. You don’t have to figure everything out alone.
For me, there was “Stretch yourself” and “Make sure to get plenty of play time.” I am very committed to that second lesson. If Mom needs someone to demonstrate the importance of play, I’m available. She should probably bring a frisbee.
Then there were the pages that made Mom think of Remington, her gone-but-never-forgotten heart dog. “Assume everyone is a friend” reminded her of the constant love and joy Remi brought everywhere he went. “Teach your family how to let you go” touched a much more tender place.
Some lessons are easy to smile about. Others make you stop reading for a moment and remember a dog you’ll love for the rest of your life.
Little Dogs, Big Things to Think About
Mom found this book beautiful and emotional. It moves between humor and tenderness in a way that gives you room to laugh, remember, and think about how you want to live.
One piece of advice ends with “Get out. See things. It’s awesome out there.” Now that is advice I can get behind! There are people to meet, places to sniff, and adventures waiting beyond the front door. For humans, it’s also an invitation to be curious and take part in the world around them.
Another page asks about your higher purpose. That’s a pretty big question from a little dog—and one worth sitting with. How do you bring kindness into someone else’s life? What do you want to give to the world?
I’m still contemplating my answer, but I think making people smile and helping them feel cozy with my poems is a good place to start.
My Paw of Approval
I think The Dogs’ Guide to Human(Kind) would touch the heartstrings of any dog lover, especially someone who carries the memory of a beloved dog with them.
Even people who aren’t fond of dogs could find food for thought and opportunities to grow in these pages. And people who think they aren’t fond of dogs definitely need to spend some time in contemplation of their life choices.
Seven dachshunds have left us some lovely reminders about kindness, love, and making the most of our time together. Mom recommends keeping tissues nearby.
I recommend keeping your dog nearby, too. 🐾